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Everyone but me wants to go to the Moon. Sometimes, instead of reading to me at bedtime, Mum tells me a story about Rupert and Jiminy, two imaginary mice living under our shed who dream of being astronauts...
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The Blurb
A memoir about growing up in Scotland in the sixties and seventies with undiagnosed autism
Is it ever too late to discover your authentic self? Alex Morgan always felt different, she just didn't know why. As a child living above the family's Edinburgh dress shop, she learned from her mother that the world was filled with monsters - her father chief among them - and dreadful things could happen at any time. To stay safe, she spent almost sixty years trying to blend in, hiding her fear, pretending to understand and be like other people.
Then, exhausted and stuck in bed with Covid, she took an online neurodivergence test and came face-to-face with the real cause of her difference: she was autistic.
How had she and everyone around her failed to realise? Which parent did the crucial genes come from, and how could this new understanding help her build a better life? With unflinching honesty, Alex chronicles her journey to unravel how autism shaped her family's story and her own.
Along the way, she details the condition's history, causes and the diagnostic process, where decades of misogyny, combined with females' conditioning to conform, have left so many women undiagnosed. Studies suggest there may be 700,000 in the UK alone, many mislabelled with anxiety, depression, OCD or bipolar disorder and mis-medicated accordingly. Women struggling to play the part expected of them by society, with no idea of the actual issue.
By revealing what it feels like to be an autistic child, teen and adult - and recounting how she cast off her neurotypical mask - Alex demystifies a condition whose impact on women has been tragically underestimated.
My Review
I am ashamed to say that prior to reading this wonderful memoir, I knew very little about autism. It just hasn't crossed my path in life and, thus, has been a gap in my understanding and knowledge. However, having now read this book, I have a much better understanding of the subject, and in particular how it might affect women.
The author bravely sets out her life experience of living with autism. Undiagnosed until she was in late middle age, she had spent her lifetime pretending; trying not to be noticed, trying to appear neurotypical, and masking her every move.
Working as a journalist for many years, the author has written her book with skill. It is engaging and makes for compelling reading.
I think her journey to diagnosis will aid some readers in making more sense of themselves, as the author did. Her step-by-step narrative of self-realisation, along with sourcing the help that she needed, will aid some readers in seeking diagnosis and help themselves.
This is a brave and candid account and I greatly admire the author for revealing so much about herself and her family. For myself, I found the book to be informative and it has given me a greater understanding of the world of autism.
This book is well worth reading and I highly recommend it.
Book Details
ISBN: 978 1919254920
Publisher: Thorn and Haw Publications
Formats: paperback
No. of Pages: 296
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About the Author
Alex Morgan was diagnosed as autistic in 2022 at the age of fifty-eight. She is the founder of theautisticwoman.co.uk, the UK’s only comprehensive online autism resource written by an autistic woman, and blogs @theautisticwoman on Substack (links below.)
Alex spent almost forty years as a writer, sub-editor and editor on everything from women’s magazines to national newspapers. Her first novel, Tandem, won the 2013 Hookline Novel Competition judged by book groups from around the UK, and she co-authored A Practical Guide to Camping, published by White Owl in 2022. Mothertongue, which was shortlisted in the Northern Writers’ Awards, is her first work of narrative non-fiction. She is currently working on her second novel.
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